Loving yourself!!

I often wonder why women say they don't engage themselves in self love or as it's popularly known "masturbation". Ladies let us be honest here for a minute and ask ourselves, "how can I expect him to know what pleases me if I don't know myself? Or "how do I expect him to get it right the first time for he is only beginning to learn my body?" I am making mention of the first time because I believe that alot of guys are given the red light because we ladies judge them on the first performance which is wrong. While a guy may have been with many girl,always bare in mind that all woman are different and what sets off one and have her juices flowing may not even tickle another's fancy.
 Back to the real issue here,"masturbation"!!. I believe that every woman should learn her body and what turns her on. She should know where and how to touch herself,what turns her on as this would only serve herself and relationship great purpose because when he doesn't know how you can teach him. Think of how sexy it would be for your man to walk in from a long day and catches you in the act or he walks out of the shower and you're doing your thing. For me I think it's fucking mind blowing sexy,hell if I was a man I would enjoy every minute of it. There is nothing like setting the mood for an amazing adventure.
 Masturbation can also save relationships,if partners encourage each other to give themselves the release that they crave when one or the another is not around,building the anticipation for when it happens we would have a curb on cheating. Pick up that damn phone and call,have some phone sex and relive yourself of the days' or moment stress with your significant other on the line. There are people who are ashame and feel small doing such but you can bet your sweet ass that shame should have no place in your bedroom. You need to be daring,open and willing to do what you must to keep your relationship alive and thriving.
 For me I think that masturbation is hot,sexy and my means of survival to not jumping in bed with my hot guy friend who's been coming onto me or my co-worker with the fine body and tight abs. I like to stand in the mirror with my under garments and admire myself. I would look at my reflection staring back at me and get all heavy eyes, sometimes amazed at the hungry and need to please myself. Then without even thinking much my hands would roam my body. Till next time....

Life Is A Question!!!

Life is a question with death being its answer. While you wait for the day your maker will call you home live life never failing to remember that some day the question has to be answered. In living be honest,be humble and find happiness. Pave your way to success,leaving behind foot prints many would wish to follow. Let your voice be heard and make sure your story is told to a crowd that will carry your legacy long after you're gone.
 Life is a gift to be cherished,a present to be unwrapped and a mystery waiting to be unfold with the how,the whys and the whens playing a major role till the end. While we wait for our call live life ensuing that we leave little to no stones unturned ~~~TS.

Self doubt!!!

Self doubt is one of the things that is crippling us from being at our best or reaching our full potential. Know that someone by others definition will always be prettier,sexie,richer,more educated and the list can go on but believe that you have alot to offer and that you will bring something unique to the table.

 Stop standing in the way of your blessings,give it all up to the Lord and believe. Each day when in doubt tell yourself you can and you will. We need one person to believe and we always have two for starters,that's God and yourself. Crush  yourself doubts and replace it with confidence~~~TS.