Loving yourself (2)

It's been awhile but I am here to continue on this journey of self love, as it plays a major role; not just in the bedroom but in general.

Being comfortable in your skin and with your body can help you become confident, accepting who you are as a person as well as boost your self esteem. This is not only for women but men as well for many of us don't feel comfortable in our skin.

Now, to take us to the steamy part of loving who we are: as I have stated, I enjoy masturbation and think it's just mind blowing sexy. I touch myself with so much passion and love that I would think it impossible to not be comfortable with who I am. When I stand in my mirror I allow my thoughts to get the best of me and get lost in the moment. I take myself to that happy place and shut the world away. My hands roam my body, feeling and squeezing, pinching and caressing my nipples. I made love to myself as if my guy was right there with me. Touching my pussy always makes me weak and giddy with excitement! Caressing my clit through my panty is the next best feeling shy of achieving an orgasm! Not being able to get enough, I move over to my bed; not taking my eyes away from the mirror, as I don't want to miss any part of the action going down. I place one leg on top of the dresser, gaining better access to my wetness and libia; I prepared myself for optimal satisfaction! I slowly removed my panty, took it to my face and inhaled my scent. I had to grab onto the bed post for support as I got a little weak in the knees.....yes! My wetness has that effect on me! Not wasting anymore time, I touched my pussy gently and felt my juices flowing. I couldn't stop the orgasm from coming so I had to submit. I wanted more, and more did I receive. Rubbing my clit while fingering my pussy, I can hear his voice in my head saying "in and out, just like that babes".
It wasn't long before my body began to shake uncontrollable and I could hear my moans echoing in the room!
Now guys, this isn't just a woman's show as NO lady wants a guy who is mediocre!  Some of you guys who talk nonsense about not being one to masturbate needs to get y'all act right and give a girl something to think about! Something to make her forget chat time with the girls and have a reason to wanna come home to hubby! This isn't a spectator's sport! Walking in on your man with his dick in his hands caught in the moment, rock hard to the point that the veins are visible and he is close to climax seeing from his action and hearing the passion in his voice calls for everything to go flying across the room and you enjoying a cream pie......

Duces till next time......
I'm out.

Loving yourself!!

I often wonder why women say they don't engage themselves in self love or as it's popularly known "masturbation". Ladies let us be honest here for a minute and ask ourselves, "how can I expect him to know what pleases me if I don't know myself? Or "how do I expect him to get it right the first time for he is only beginning to learn my body?" I am making mention of the first time because I believe that alot of guys are given the red light because we ladies judge them on the first performance which is wrong. While a guy may have been with many girl,always bare in mind that all woman are different and what sets off one and have her juices flowing may not even tickle another's fancy.
 Back to the real issue here,"masturbation"!!. I believe that every woman should learn her body and what turns her on. She should know where and how to touch herself,what turns her on as this would only serve herself and relationship great purpose because when he doesn't know how you can teach him. Think of how sexy it would be for your man to walk in from a long day and catches you in the act or he walks out of the shower and you're doing your thing. For me I think it's fucking mind blowing sexy,hell if I was a man I would enjoy every minute of it. There is nothing like setting the mood for an amazing adventure.
 Masturbation can also save relationships,if partners encourage each other to give themselves the release that they crave when one or the another is not around,building the anticipation for when it happens we would have a curb on cheating. Pick up that damn phone and call,have some phone sex and relive yourself of the days' or moment stress with your significant other on the line. There are people who are ashame and feel small doing such but you can bet your sweet ass that shame should have no place in your bedroom. You need to be daring,open and willing to do what you must to keep your relationship alive and thriving.
 For me I think that masturbation is hot,sexy and my means of survival to not jumping in bed with my hot guy friend who's been coming onto me or my co-worker with the fine body and tight abs. I like to stand in the mirror with my under garments and admire myself. I would look at my reflection staring back at me and get all heavy eyes, sometimes amazed at the hungry and need to please myself. Then without even thinking much my hands would roam my body. Till next time....

Life Is A Question!!!

Life is a question with death being its answer. While you wait for the day your maker will call you home live life never failing to remember that some day the question has to be answered. In living be honest,be humble and find happiness. Pave your way to success,leaving behind foot prints many would wish to follow. Let your voice be heard and make sure your story is told to a crowd that will carry your legacy long after you're gone.
 Life is a gift to be cherished,a present to be unwrapped and a mystery waiting to be unfold with the how,the whys and the whens playing a major role till the end. While we wait for our call live life ensuing that we leave little to no stones unturned ~~~TS.

Self doubt!!!

Self doubt is one of the things that is crippling us from being at our best or reaching our full potential. Know that someone by others definition will always be prettier,sexie,richer,more educated and the list can go on but believe that you have alot to offer and that you will bring something unique to the table.

 Stop standing in the way of your blessings,give it all up to the Lord and believe. Each day when in doubt tell yourself you can and you will. We need one person to believe and we always have two for starters,that's God and yourself. Crush  yourself doubts and replace it with confidence~~~TS.

Granddaughter of Bob Marley joins forces with Carla St. Romain to end poverty

No stranger to the public eye is Donisha Prendergast, daughter of the late Robert Bob) Nesta Marley and Ambassador to “ Feed The Poor Worldwide” which was founded by St. Lucian native Carla St. Romain who is also known as Dawta Maolee  joins forces to put an end to poverty around the world.

On Sunday April 20^th, 2014 Donisha and Carla along with family and friends set out on a beautiful day to keep the hope and dream alive for many of the homeless people who needed to be fed. For some it was a day that will go down in the history books while many others saw it as a blessing and privilege to spend time and converse with the two empresses. 

Setting aside pride and working towards something meaningful and great, the two took pleasure in handing over meals to the less fortunate ensuring that everyone felt welcome. It’s pointless to have it all and not give back to the ones who are in need of it.  A little can go long way and for those homeless folks, what they received was more than they could have ever hoped for.

Many see homelessness as a disease and often refrain from interacting with people who are. This is sad, for no one knows what tomorrow brings or what the future holds. The wealthiest man today can be a beggar tomorrow all because of the unexpected curve balls that life throws our way. It’s important that we give a hand while we can and when we can, for the life you save today maybe the hands that picks you up from the dirty and give you the hope you need for tomorrow.

There are over 100 million people who are homeless and the numbers are only going to increase if nothing is done to end poverty. One person can stand and become the voice of poverty but the impact and change would be much greater if 20 or more people were to join in the fight and help put an end to this disease claiming the lives of our brothers and sisters.

Carla and Donisha finds joy in doing the work that Jah has called on them to do and it’s in seeing the smile on the faces of the less fortunate that becomes infectious and in turn bring forth the smile on their beautiful faces. They find fulfillment in knowing that with each new day they are one step closer in achieving their dreams and putting an end to poverty.

It is said that one has not enjoyed all the pleasures of life or achieve all there is to in life unless they have impacted someone else’s life in a positive manner. We all have an opportunity to change a life, give hope and be part of something great by joining in the fight to end “Poverty”.  We can make it work, all we got to do is come together and make it work.

Carla is seeking interested people all over the world to join in the fight to end poverty. To follow her work and stay up to date with her progress, you can like and share her Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/feedthepoorworldwide.

Gone From This Life: Tribute to Kweisi Clarke

Here I am no longer able to go on and it’s all because of one man’s stupidity. My family shouldn't have to be faced with this tragedy for we were doing just fine living like we ought to be.

I watched my mom as she came in to visit me day after day and I know it wasn't easy. She tried to stay strong and believe I’d pull through this never once showing any signs of weakness. At times I wanted to reach out and touch her face, open my mouth to let her know that I loved her and appreciate the support, but my body was weak, and though my lips formed the words, my voice I couldn't find to speak.

My pops, who was also my best friend, the foundation that keep us together for once in his life, looked like he was defeated by the sight of me laying motionless on the hospital bed. I know that he was anything but weak and it hurt my heart to know that my words couldn't comfort him, and I wish for one last time to speak just so I could let him know that I will be free.

I watch my siblings and I know that it isn't going to be easy for them. I know that they will have it hard and I wish to God I can mend their breaking hearts. I know they would all choose dealing with me though that it was sometimes hard over having to grieve the loss of a dead brother. I pray that father you will give them the strength to go on with life and help them understand that my time on earth is done.

I can’t stand the sight of my brothers from the different mothers the Lord blessed my life with, for I know that my thugz will be missing their homie. One less soldier on their battle field but one more added to jah army to protect them. The bond we have will never be broken and Lord I ask that you please help them understand that though I am not there in the flesh, our friendship will always remain.

I am glad I rode with my brothers till the end.

I know that if love could have healed my bruised body I’d be walking out of that hospital from the minute my body touched the bed. If prayer, support and courage could have saved my life my family would have been celebrating my life as oppose to preparing for my funeral.

I am one pillar taken from my family’s foundation and I will never know why, but I know that the Lord has plans for me. I will be putting together the dream house that I knew someday would be ours and wait patiently till we are all united again in the father’s homeland.

The tears that they cry will build the flowing river that will someday serve as the passage way to heaven’s gate so until that time I will ask that everyone take comfort in knowing that my 16 years were well lived and the memories I gave to everyone will be theirs to cherish in remembrance of me.

This is me Kweisi Clark, gone from this life but we will meet again in the afterlife.

Grieving the lost of a soul sister

Broken, torn, battered, bruise I am not sure which words to use. Angry, hurt, feeling confuse that’s how you left me what I got the news. Thinking to myself why do they have to be that way, trying hard to take my joy away but the confirmation came and there was no denying the pain. To numb to feel, too weak to move until I heard someone speak your name. Tears roll down my face as I try to speak but the only words that came out was “lord, why her”? I search my mind for why God chose you, a million thoughts but none of them can explain why it had to be you, the reason for my pain. 
You have gone to the great beyond, home to the father’s land and left me in this world all alone. With sadness in my heart I have to say I will miss you till that day when the trumpets will sound at the gates of heaven and you along with papa will be waiting for me at God’s right hand. You were more than just my sister for you were also my best friend and to live with the burden of not knowing when is no easy task but I’ll take refuge in knowing that you are seated at the father’s right hand.